My wife is cheating on me
- written about 8 years ago

First, I'm 27 and my wife is 23 and we have a 2.5 year old son. I've been married for 3 months now, and just recently an old friend of hers came back into her life. I was supportive because she's never had many friends, but quickly spoiled on it when she wanted to take a vacation to see him for a couple days before we have ever taken our honeymoon. On New Years eve I saw a text message she sent him that wasn't explicit, but was definitely something that is not acceptable in a non-open marriage. After reading that I knew she talked to this guy on Yahoo, so I logged in to her Yahoo chat and told it to log. The next day she told me she was no longer going to meet this guy but wouldn't tell me why. When she was at work I logged in and read the messages and found out that he decided that he could not have a sexual relationship with her and that she shouldn't come down any longer because his life was too complicated at the moment. Since then (a few days ago when I found that out) I found that she is posting on Craigslist to find men in our area, but do not know what the content of the posted messages were. I'm unsure what to do because we've been through so much together, we have anchored each other and provided each other so much support over the last 4 years. It's tough to think of anything else, because the fact is that my son's therapists just told me that our son needs stability in his life to help him behaviorally. I'm not really sure what to do next...

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